NB: there are a few book, film and TV spoilers in what
follows

There
are of course a plethora of TV programmes and films that do include weddings,
commitment and renewal of vows ceremonies. Just a few weddings
that I’ve watched more than once: Bridesmaids,
In her Shoes, Nanny McPhee, and Gavin and
Stacey (there are a few across the series which includes another thwarted
ceremony, this time between Nessa and Dave Coaches). The media both reflects and
influences societal expectation and individual (and couple) choice and I wonder
how many brides opted for a Doctor Who or Telly
Tubbies theme after watching the ceremonies of Geraldine, The Vicar of Dibley or Alice her verger and how
many best men have planned a surprise musical interlude following the wedding
at the beginning of Love Actually? It’s not just weddings and commitment
ceremonies that find inspiration from the media of course and after the actor John
Hannah’s rendition of the Funeral Blues
by W. H. Aden the poem was republished in a pamphlet of ten which has sold many
thousands of copies. Watch it here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_a-eXIoyYA
The first time I first thought about how a funeral might
be different from the historically expected norm was watching an episode of Cracker (the 1990s TV series about a
criminal psychologist who works with the Greater Manchester police to help them
solve crimes). One episode includes Cracker’s (played by Robbie Coltrane)
mother’s funeral within which all of those assembled play a game of Bingo; her
favourite pastime. Yet although poems, non-religious prose and games might be
much more common in contemporary funeral ceremonies than they once were Billy
Connolly’s character's choice in What We
Did on Our Holiday (I won’t go into
detail here as this is a recent film that many might not have seen) is likely
less popular.
Inspiration for readings and music (everything from Wet,Wet Wet’s Love is all Around in Four Weddings . . . to Invitation
to the Dance by Carl Maria von Weber which is the music that the Dibley vicar and Darcy Bussell perform their mirror routine to) ideas for dress,
procedure and the odd surprise or two doesn't just come from the fictional and reality based programmes and social media are increasingly influential. A cursory glance at Pinternet, for example, would give you lots of ideas. Just type weddings, funerals or naming ceremonies into the search box and see what you get. Why not try UK Society of Celebrants or Celebrants Tales too. https://www.pinterest.com/UKSoC/
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